Me Before You- Jojo Moyes

Having found a treasure of iTunes gift cards, I instantly got on and looked for books. I have book commitment issues so I downloaded a bunch of “samples” before I really committed to spending money on a book. I read a few samples and created a word document to jot down some notes so that when I went back to make my purchases I could look back at my notes and decide what was worth the money. I know, ridiculous but I’m obnoxious that way.

I’m new to Jojo Moyes. I saw her 3 NYT Best Seller books, One Plus One, The Girl You Left Behind and Me Before You, pop up on Pinterest. I decided to add it to my list of potentials.  Me Before You has been nominated for Book of the Year at the UK Galaxy Book Awards. Me Before You has since gone on to sell over 3 million copies worldwide. After reading it, I can see why. I got through the sample for Me Before You and I instantly bought the book.

Before doing some research on her, I instantly knew she was English- the whole lingo and setting of the story gave her away. Having just been to Northern Ireland this summer, it was easy to imagine the landscapes she described and for me to keep up with the words. BUT, for the book.

I had no idea what I was getting into. I read the book preview iTunes provided and read the sample. Nothing really prepared me for what I was reading. It was tough to read sometimes. Louisa Clark was a relate-able character for me. Through a series of events, she becomes the caretaker of a once viral, active 35 year old quadriplegic, Will. My great-grandmother has vascular dementia. She essentially has tons of mini strokes, slowly but surly destroying her synapses and her memory. She hasn’t known who I am for over a year now. We have found, that when dealing with a situation, particularly a person who is in such a predicament like my great-grandmother, that sometimes, the best way to get through them is to laugh. If you don’t laugh and you stop and think about what is really happening, all you can do is cry. Somehow, whether she knew it or not, Moyes got me through this book by doing just that. The snarky, sarcastic, snapping between Will and Lou is what kept me from sobbing. By the time I got to the end, literally, I cried just a few tears.

This is a relatively controversial book. Anytime assisted suicide is brought up, people freak out. It’s not a euthanasia story like Of Mice and Men, but a story of choice. A story of struggle. A story of quality of life. A story of love, sacrifice, growth, acceptance, and living fully. Somehow, the lessons brought forward far outweighed the shock of what the pages contain.

This would be a great book club book. There is enough to talk about for at least a solid week. There is character development, the struggle and discussion of assisted suicide, consequences, choices, love- the list goes on. Thankfully, though the idea of love and romance was in the book, it was not gross or over done. It was just enough to fulfill my girlie side without destroying and imposing what the book was about. If you want a book that makes you think, makes you assess life and makes you thankful for the life that you have- read this.

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For more on Jojo Moyes and her books, check out her super pretty and easily navigated website http://www.jojomoyes.com/.

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